Multigenerational Travel

My expectations were high, to say the least.  I had been imagining a perfect vacation for myself, my children, and grandbabies.  A vacation where we all cohabitated peacefully without a care in the world, bonding and experiencing Gulf Shores in complete harmony.  After all, I had vacationed with my children when they were young many times!  Picture an image of children frolicking, holding hands and laughing, all the while creating beautiful memories. Que the scurrying woodland creatures and the lilting melody of a flute.

Boy, was I ever delusional!  I had never considered the fact that my daughter Emili’s family operated much the way mine did. Beau and Sadie Jo’s naps happen if and when they happen, and so does mealtime and bedtime.  They were ready to be out the door at any given moment and spontaneity was the game.  On the other hand, my daughter Aimee’s family is 180 degrees the opposite. Their daughter Quinn has a very structured schedule throughout the day that they work hard to maintain.  Which I have to admit, makes babysitting for her a dream! Adding to that was the fact that one family preferred making the most of the morning hours, while the other preferred to sleep in. And then there was also the fact that Quinn was getting multiple new
molars and wasn’t feeling well at all.  

While both types of parenting have their advantages and disadvantages, they definitely do not mesh well for vacation.  And I couldn’t help but wonder, how did my own daughters turn out so differently, and what would happen when my newlywed son threw children into the mix?

To be honest, I had not considered how this all might play into the vacation.  In fact, I had rented a large beach house so that we could spend ALL of our time together. Bad idea! 

Based on our experience, I have come up with some tips when you are traveling with multiple families, especially if they have young children.

1. Take time to know everyone’s schedule, or lack of, prior to your vacation.  Know their expectations and needs.

2. Plan activities together that allow for maintaining schedules, while sprinkling in
some spontaneity for others.

3. It’s not about checking off a to-do list, it’s about being together.

4. Make sure each family has their own space within your accommodations.

5. Most importantly relax and enjoy, it’s all part of the memories.  Someday you will
look back and laugh at all the struggles of the day.

Despite our differences, we are planning another trip together with the addition of a June 2021 baby!  But remember, even when you think you have everything planned perfectly, a toddler can prove you wrong!

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